Resources for Grief Support

“The work of grieving is the hardest work there is. It is lonely, sickening and exhausting. Grief is the price we pay for love. It is the highest price.”
—Rabbi Earl Grollman

“Grief can be the garden of compassion. If you keep your heart open through everything, your pain can become your greatest ally in your life's search for love and wisdom.”
—Rumi

On campus

HDS Office of the Chaplain and Religious and Spiritual Life

Life Raft

A weekly deep-listening drop-in group that meets during the academic year, Life Raft is for any HDS student who is carrying a burden such as grief, worry, chronic illness, despair, or stress of any kind and is seeking a place to be seen, heard, and honored. Facilitated by the Chaplain and the Chaplain Interns. Life Raft is not a therapy group but a space of recognition, regard, and respect. Students in need of clinical services are strongly encouraged to reach out to CAMS at HUHS in addition to utilizing such supplemental supports as this group.

Denominational counselors

The HDS Office of Ministry Studies employs part-time denominational counselors who serve the needs of several particular faith communities at the Divinity School.

Harvard chaplains

Harvard Chaplains is the umbrella organization of 38 chaplains representing 26 of the world’s traditions, united in their commitment to serving Harvard’s diverse student communities.

Harvard Counseling and Mental Health Services (CAMHS)

Bureau of Study Counsel

The Memorial Church Grief Group for Students

The Memorial Church holds a Grief Support Group for students each term. The group is limited to 10 participants. If you are interested in being a part of the Grief Support Group, please contact the Reverend Alanna Copenhaver at alanna_copenhaver@harvard.edu or 617.496.1426.

Off-campus

The sites below are maintained by organizations external to Harvard Divinity School; their inclusion here does not necessarily imply endorsement by HDS. If you know of other resources that you think should be considered for inclusion on this page, please email the Office of the Chaplain and Religious and Spiritual Life.

Mount Auburn Hospital Bereavement Support Groups

Mount Auburn Hospital offers three eight-week-long bereavement support groups series a year. Each series will meet for eight Wednesday evenings, 6–7:30 pm in the Clough Conference Room.
Any adult who has experienced the death of someone close is welcomed. Participants have experienced the death of a spouse or partner, child, sibling, friend, or other relative. Contact
Beth Loomis, director of pastoral care, at eloomis@mah.harvard.edu or 617.575.8606.

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255

 

The Compassionate Friends (TCF) of Boston: Supporting Family After a Child Dies

  • Meeting information: first Tuesday of each month 6–7:30 pm
  • Trinity Church of Boston (Parish House, Lower Level Room A)
  • 206 Clarendon Drive, Boston, MA 02116
  • tcfofboston@gmail.com or 617.539.6424

VNACare

Bereavement support groups are offered several times a year in various locations. There is no charge for the group, but registration is required.


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